One of the most important concepts that are sometimes lost on grappling and jiu-jitsu mats around the world is that when you are rolling during class, you are still TRAINING. When you just fight or roll to win, you’re missing and not receiving all the training benefits that are available to you.
Experiment with Jiu-Jitsu
Rolling and sparring is used to improve your skills and to test out new techniques, theories and positions. It’s your experimentation time. Too many times, I see students or fellow training partners just “fighting” each other instead of just trying to learn. That does NOT mean that when you roll, you shouldn’t go hard, or try to win. BUT, the difference comes in when you ONLY focus on winning.
Facing losing obstacles
For example, when I train at the Kobukai Ju-Jitsu dojo, we have a very talented group of guys there. Some of them are in transition phases of their grappling. They recognize what they have learned, they recognize where they want to be, but are having troubles finding the path there. One of the major obstacles they are putting in front of themselves is that when they are rolling, they are SO FOCUSED on not giving up anything, that they spend the whole time doing nothing. They know enough on how to not lose, so in that regard maybe they think they are winning, but in reality, they’re hurting themselves in the long run.
My losing habits
When I was coming up through Kobukai Ju-Jitsu, I faced a similar problem. I could take people down and work from the top positions, but put me on my back and I SUCKED. I hated being on my back so much, that for years I ignored it. Until I got to a point where other people could put me on my back and now I was forced to fight. This was a very frustrating time for me and for a while I fought just to not lose. Eventually I decided to refocus my efforts and focus on learning how to fight from the guard positions. Fast forward 3-5 years and I am very thankful that I did. My guard is nothing to brag about, but I greatly enjoy experimenting with guard, the different guard positions, and have oberall increased my jiu-jitsu and grappling ability because I said “fuck winning” and embraced learning.