That sucks, Li. If some people were being prejudiced against me, I wouldn't let that get in the way of my goal of studying in a particular dojo. It's good you have respect for your parents. Not many teenagers do. Sounds like you've got some character. If you're going to stay, I suggest you watch your back--there are A LOT of dumb asses out there that won't think twice to jump someone. Good luck! (By the way, nice avatar under O-Sensei's quote.
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