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05-01-2008, 07:41 PM
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Well since there's updates going on this thread. And I do really consider you guys on here friends. I'm getting divorced. Islamically we're divorced, but yeah it's been in the process for over a month now. I still get to see my daughter at least 2-3 times a week tho, but still it's tough not seeing here everday. That's the toughest part.
So you guys, cherish your marriages and your kids. Cuz it really sux when what you know has gone to the shits. Don't take your family for granted, ever. Always be consious of them, it's easy get into that, "they're there" attitude.
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05-01-2008, 08:58 PM
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Sorry to hear that BP. PM me if you want to talk.
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05-02-2008, 11:46 AM
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As my mother would say - "its the new normal".
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05-02-2008, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted by BLACK PANTA  Well since there's updates going on this thread. And I do really consider you guys on here friends. I'm getting divorced. Islamically we're divorced, but yeah it's been in the process for over a month now. I still get to see my daughter at least 2-3 times a week tho, but still it's tough not seeing here everday. That's the toughest part.
So you guys, cherish your marriages and your kids. Cuz it really sux when what you know has gone to the shits. Don't take your family for granted, ever. Always be consious of them, it's easy get into that, "they're there" attitude. | Sorry to hear that bro.
Try to keep from being distracted by things that dont really matter and if you can keep patience, peace, love and tolerance as your guides you never know how the story will play out 5, 10 or even 20 years down the road. Good luck and I hope you all can be happy - because when you stop to think about it, thats all you really both want in the end.
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05-02-2008, 12:46 PM
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thanks for all your thoughts. Scott thanks for the offer, Bamboo thanks for being there, Zeff thanks for the encouragement. I'm just gonna keep focused on my faith, daughter, training (for both jiu jitsu, mma and police). In that order.
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