For a long time I was considered “the big guy” in class. I weighed 260+ pounds and had no problem using my weight. In fact I enjoyed it! Squishing little dudes with my big ol’ gut was FUN! Well it seems that all my years of using my weight has come back to haunt me when I finally dropped weight (205lbs). I have a student who is a very talented wrestler, ex-football player, and very quick learned when it comes to grappling. He also weighs over 270lbs and extremely strong. He’s very good at controlling and using his weight, he recognizes how to keep an opponent down and how to use his weight effectively. To top if off, his takedowns are excellent too.
Some people would probably be “apprehensive” about fighting a big talented guy – complaining about the size difference, etc. But the way I see it and I am glad my students see it the same way is that fighting a big guy and having a big guy to train with is a HUGE (no pun intended) benefit. To put it simply, if a technique works on a big solid grappler, then chances are the technique will work on everyone.
Regardless of the benefits, it can be quite frustrating and taxing to be underneath a large opponent. You are unable to move yourself and it is impossible to move him as well. Many times after I have failed a takedown or have gotten takedown, I find myself on the bottom quickly with my guard either passed or half-way to passed. I am a huge fan of half guard, but having difficulty executing the type of half guard game I like… And that is where a lesson in humility comes into play. If I was just focused on purely winning and nothing else, I would probably stall my ass off, pull guard or something, and try to do something “gay” that might allow me to pull off a win OR at least not lose. But I think that whole philosophy about just fighting to win is extremely counterproductive. There’s an expanded post on “Fighting to not lose” – check it out. So when I train with our resident big guy, I am “training” I am not fighting to win, I am fighting to learn. And because of that, sometimes I get tapped out too.
Through my ongoing experiences fighting as larger opponent, I am starting to learn and recognize some techniques and strategies that more effective then others. Here are some tips.